Having not updated the diary for a long time. I will attempt to give you an update on Tyler, Samantha, and Luke to share both their triumphs and their struggles with Dystonia. I am very proud of each of them for the grace and character, each of them conduct their lives with. Yes I’m certain I am biased but how they conduct themselves and what they accomplish under the circumstances they deal with is nothing less than extraordinary.
Tyler, who just turned 27, lives in a 3 bedroom two bath home he owns here in Gainesville, Florida on the north side of town. Tyler has a dog Rick Ross that he has had for several years and recently, approximately one year ago, added a second dog, smoke to his family. Ross is a white dog about 45 pounds and smoke is a tan colored dog similar to a shepherd and Smoke is about 70 pounds. Tyler gets paid to create videos of him playing games like Fortnite. Tyler is also a freelance photographer and creative designer for marketing and video production but continue to look for full time employment with benefits. As upbeat and positive as Tyler is, he continues to deal with many physical limitations caused by his DYT1 dystonia. Tyler‘s left arm poles up constantly as well as his left leg, keeping him in his wheelchair. Tyler’s speech is also hindered making it difficult for job, interviews, or sparking conversations with new people amongst other things. Tyler is very caring and very smart. My wife and I feel very blessed to have kids that are not dealing with addictions, get in trouble with the law, or any of the other vices I see other parents dealing with. Samantha graduated from The University of Alabama with the nursing degree and is working for Baptist Hospital system in the ER at nights. She excels as a nurse because she’s always studying and learning new things and has tremendous compassion for her patients. She is an exceptional nurse. She is very determined with an unwavering willpower while caring deeply and has made God part of her life. She has become good with her money and saves. She travels and does big things on her days off. Sometimes I feel like she’s burning the candle at both ends, especially being on her feet for 12 hours at a time and adjusting to the night schedule can affect anyone’s sleeping habits, but it can affect someone with Dystonia even more so. Samantha recently had her DBS controller/batteries replaced with a new rechargeable system. She has had a very difficult time since that surgery with lots of things. She is trying to adjust her settings to address her difficulties, but it has been very difficult lately. Not only has she been in pain, she also has very difficulty walking or standing straight. Samantha eats very well and pays attention to her nutrition. Like her brother Luke she goes to the gym every day. An example of life with Dystonia is seen when Sam goes anywhere lately people tend to stare, and she does not like it. I think it’s a natural reaction for people to stare, but it’s difficult to deal with. Sam just turned 24 years old and Michelle and I spent a few days in Charleston with her for her birthday. Luke turned 20 December 1st 2024. He was able to go snowboarding in vail Colorado with his best bud Tommy during the December break. Luke has learned golf and plays on his breaks along with going to the lake with friends and wakeboarding/skurfing. Luke remains very athletic but has put on lbs and muscle as he works out every day with weights and follows a good nutrition regiment. His hard work should pay off for him this year as he returns to play lacrosse(middie) at Belmont Abbey College. Luke is showing no signs of dystonia. He continues to be loving and supportive of his siblings in their battle with dystonia. Luke got his number back this year #40 (For T) and we are all excited to see him play with the passion he has always had. Luke has never missed a game, a practice or taken a play off because of injury. His steadfast work ethic and determination work in conjunction with a very disciplined approach to life I believe he has honed from playing sports. He constantly thinks of others and is always willing to be kind and helpful to those around him. Luke worked over the summer and made good money-again never missing a day. One of the things I am most proud of our kids for is how kind they are to others and often put others above themselves even though they struggle with the devastating affects of living with dystonia. They each spent more time this year with Tyler’s Hope for a dystonia cure. Rick
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Well, it's been a while since I updated the diary so after a long winter break where I was able to spend some time with my kids, I thought I would make an entry.
It is January 2023. My oldest son, Tyler, is currently living at home with Michelle, Luke and me. We recently sold our old property where he had his own apartment. We moved into the new house and Tyler staying with us while we searched for a home for him. Michelle and I have been blessed with good income, so the plan was to sell the house and take some of those proceeds to buy Tyler his own house. With the crazy housing market it has taken us longer to find a home for him than we originally planned, but just yesterday we went under contract for a house for Tyler and hopefully we will close by the end of January. Until then, he is currently sleeping on our couch because all of the bedrooms in our new house are upstairs. Tyler continues to fight every day with his disabilities. He has had several surgeries to replace his batteries and recently he started taking a new medication. The research on this new drug has shown great promise. There is still a lot of research being done on the drug, but so far we have not seen any adverse affects on Tyler's symptoms. Tyler is also working part time at the InterMed Group researching and normalizing the medical equipment database. Tyler is looking into studying and providing cyber security for medical equipment in the near future. We were very excited to have Samantha spend her winter holiday with us. She started the break with a battery change. Samantha's symptoms mainly impact her mobility, but as her battery started to die some of her symptoms started to progress, including her speech. Luckily they seem to have been corrected with the battery replacement. Being the fighter she is, not even 36 hours after surgery she jumped on a plane with her mother to New York City before Christmas. Although she was uncomfortable at times, Samantha and Michelle had an amazing trip. She continues to do very well in school and is a senior in the capstone nursing program at The University of Alabama. She really enjoys learning, helping people, and will be an excellent nurse. Several times she has taken the opportunity to teach others what she has learned about movement disorders, specifically about Dystonia. Her health is very important to her. She watches her nutrition and works out consistently. Luke is growing up to be a wonderful young man. He is one of the kindest and considerate people I know. In addition, he is an amazing brother. I still find it hard to believe how close he is with his siblings. He recently came to Michelle and I to ask for permission to get a tattoo when he turned 18. In order to get a tattoo we told our children that they must be an adult and choose a tattoo that has meaning. Luke chose to get the Tyler's Hope for a Dystonia cure logo tattooed on his chest in support of Tyler and Samantha. Luke continues to not show symptoms and has started to play some golf in between all his lacrosse practice. Luke has recently committed to play lacrosse at Belmont Abbey College. His health is also very important to him. He lifts weights every day and continues to eat a balance diet to put on muscle, consisting of lots of protein and supplements. Saint Michelle continues to do whatever she can with the kids as well as with the foundation. She is currently on her way back from Tuscaloosa, Alabama as she drove Samantha back two days ago. We are looking forward to the ribbon-cutting and grand opening of the Tyler's Hope Center of Excellence at Duke University in March. That event will be coupled with a fundraiser at the Chapel Hill country club on March 20th. This will be the second Dystonia Center of Excellence with the first being at the University of Florida where they continue to push the envelope in dystonia research and care at The Fixel Institute. Tyler continues to look for treatments and participate in what he can to help us in the research. The disabilities caused by his Dystonia like every day living very difficult. Tyler continues to have a great attitude and is currently living at home in his own place. He’s looking for a full-time job that he could perform with the challenges of his disabilities yet he also has a photography business.
Samantha is a full-time student who has returned to the University of Alabama where she continues to get all A’s in her pursuit of a nursing degree. She is finishing her second year at the University of Alabama. Samantha just underwent surgery for one of her batteries placed in her abdomen for her DBS system. Luke continues to be are you very mature and supportive little brother and it’s not showing symptoms of Dystonia. Luke is an active athlete and focusing now on lacrosse. He is in 10th grade July 1st was the first day for patients to be seen at the new UF Fixel Institute and Tyler was the first patient to be seen. The institute is also home of the first dedicated Dystonia Center which incorporates compassionate clinical care and research focused on Dystonia. Tyler is currently doing work with InterMed and helps with whatever needs we have. He is living in an apartment behind us and attends lots of car shows. Tyler has had batteries replaced again this year but the surgeries went well.
Samantha just had her second battery replacement surgery in 6 months and although the surgery went well we are keeping an eye on the area for infections. She is scheduled to go with St Michelle to visit the University of Alabama this week before her orientation and start of school the first week of August. She will be in the nursing program. Luke is starting high school this year and is going to a new school - Oak Hall Academy. He leaves soon to participate in the UNC team camp for high school teams. He is working out and eating right. He is still symptom free of Dystonia but also continues to be one of the most ardent supporters of Tyler’s Hope and his siblings. Tyler has had his struggles the last 6 months with some pain and pulling especially more so in his face. However, lately he seems to be in a good groove. We purchased a new house that has a separate “apartment” for Tyler to live in and everything is very friendly for disabilities. It gives Tyler even more independence and I see him taking more responsibilities and becoming more of an adult. Everything is on one floor and the main house has a chair lift for him to easily come see us or get a good meal. He can do his laundry and other things but of course we are not aloud in his place unless invited. He took this semester off of school and has been working with the InterMed group as well as working on his videography and photography at Tyler Staab Media. I was able to spend some good father son time with him in Charleston last week when Tyler came to the fundraiser we held there.
Samantha is in her junior year at Oak Hall high school and continues to get very good grades. She has taken advantage of the new house and had many friends over to swim, shoot pool, play bocce ball, or just hang out. She has some really good friends on the lacrosse team and supports them by going to all the games. Doesn’t talk to your dad too much about what college she’s going to attend but at least she’s planning. She is beautiful and mature and very smart. Lately she has had some issues with her memory so she is trying to get in to check for DBS settings and batteries. Luke just finished his middle school lacrosse season and they won the bell by finishing the season undefeated. He takes no break from lacrosse is he has to travel teams he now is playing for. Tyler, Samantha, and Luke have all of their birthdays in November December and January with the last one being Samantha’s 17th on January 29th. As usual the secret Pal has been there for each of them. Thank you for the caring and encouragement you show each of them, it makes a difference.
They all just finished exams and we are currently in Colorado for Christmas break. We feel very blessed to be able to take a vacation together like this as a family. The dystonia Samantha and Tyler battle every day can pose real challenges but especially when taking trips together across country. Both Tyler and Samantha have been able to get on the slopes through the National Center for Sports and Disabilities or NCSD. Tyler rated his experience in a chair on the slopes as a six on a scale from 1-5. Samantha only wanted to learn to ski by herself as if she has no disability and did a great job and improved each time however her turning to one side continues to be a challenge. It makes it fun to be able to really appreciate the things we tend to take for granted. Luke continued to learn the snowboard and with his energy and athleticism you cant get him down from the mountain. We wish you a happy Hanukkah and a Merry Christmas! May 2019 bring us new breakthroughs in the science to finding a cure and eliminating dystonia. The Staabs The Hope Weekend went very well and we raised a lot of money to put towards the cure for Dystonia. The Streitmatter family, including their youngest son Austin, were a tremendous hit and addition to this year’s weekend. Austin Streitmatter showed us the tremendous progress that has happened for people with Dystonia and a commitment by the strong family to help fund the research to finish this and find a cure.
Tyler recently had a birthday and once again the secret pal showed up at our house with a birthday present. Tyler continues to do well in school at Santa Fe College. He goes to a lot of car shows and drifting competitions. Tyler and I were invited to a private tour of the Jacksonville Jaguars facilities and I competed in the punt pass and kick competition. We had fun and Tyler came home with Jaguars gear like a signed football, shades, pads, umbrella, etc.. Tyler has spent a lot of time creating and fine tuning his video and photography skills lately. He has a website and Instagram called Tyler Staab Media. Samantha has been busy with school, volleyball and now she goes to the gym regularly. We have been able to go to a few gator football games(ugh) and she goes to concerts with her friends. Luke finished his cross country season and ran well in the states. He continues to take Numa speed, jujitsu, his lacrosse is starting back, and he made his varsity basketball team. Tonight he got his jersey and was able to get number 40. He is excited that he was able to get this number in basketball as well because he plays “For-T”. I know whenever he does this it inspires me and means a lot to his siblings. Luke’s birthday is December 1st and Samantha‘s birthday is January 29. Keep the prayers coming that the research finds a cure soon. - Husband to Saint Michele and proud father to great kids The Month of September was Dystonia Awareness month and I was very proud of our daughter Samantha for introducing this and promoting it at her high school, Oak Hall. Samantha did everything on her own. I didn’t realize all she was trying to do for our foundation and to create awareness until she was done. I love when my kids get very involved in Tyler’s Hope and what we are trying to accomplish because they know and see the difference it makes. Samantha sold over $600 worth of t-shits and socks and Luke sold a few pairs of socks to his lacrosse friends. Many of Samantha’s schoolmates now participate in Tyler’s Hope Tuesdays by wearing their shirts and taking pictures for social media. Tyler, Samantha, and Luke approach the fight with dystonia and funding the cure with great strength and grace and we are very proud of them.
Tyler, Samantha, and Luke have started back to school. Tyler is at Santa Fe College and made straight As in his first year. Tyler continues to enjoy car shows and concerts. Tyler works part time for Intermed and started his own photography page. Tyler is trying some new drugs to help with his dystonia.
Samantha is taking a bunch of AP and honors classes again and made the Oak Hall varsity volleyball team. Her dystonia has been problematic and her battery is dying so this Thursday she will have surgery to replace it. It is increasingly difficult for her to walk right now as her DBS becomes less effective. Luke is taking Numaspeed for speed and agility training and takes Jujitsu with Dark Side Arena when he is not playing lacrosse. Luke loves to bass fish out at our lake place and he is getting pretty good at it. Saint Michelle continues to keep the Staab household organized and on time. Mary Staab or Mom as I know her, went the distance and laughed at Alzheimer's challenges. She did battle with that disease for over ten years, and never lost her sense of grace, gentle kindness, and compassion. Mom was a passionate supporter and driver of our cause both financially and emotionally. Mom was very sweet all of the time but was clearly a strong woman that you did not want to tangle with and taught us to stick up for what is right by standing up to the "playground bullies" like Dystonia. She loved her grandkids very much and wanted us to do anything we could to cure dystonia. She called it quits on her time, and left us literally minutes after making sure that she saw each of her children and her sister Fran (and Larry) for one-on-ones. Her legacy in tact, the timing was nothing short of a miracle.
At 11:11 a.m. yesterday, we said goodbye to the most powerful and loving influence in our lives, and now have the responsibility to be kinder, try harder, think more creatively, and love those that need it most in her honor. I have a thousand stories to tell about both of my parents and I am comforted by the undeniable sense of humor, compassion, and fearlessness that they used everyday and that I see reflected in my siblings. Anyone that doubts the hand of God after experiencing the events of the last two days with her is simply not paying attention. |